So how do we direct our children to become what THEY really want to be when they grow up, without influencing them based on our path, and our talents.
My daughter has expressed several things that she wants to do when she grows up ... a veterinarian, an artist, and a school teacher. All very respectable careers. But I got to thinking futher about all of this while we were at the Botanical Garden last weekend.
I love photography. I always have. I was called the "picture lady" in college, because I always had my camera with me. And I snapped a few decent shots at football and hockey games, that lead me to the opportunity to do some team photography while I was in college.
As my daughter and I were walking around the garden last weekend, I was snapping away, taking pictures of all of the beautiful flowers. And then she gets out her camera and starts taking pictures too. So I start to show her the importance of lighting, and framing your photos, and she is taking some really great shots! By the end of the day she tells me that she's going to add photographer to the list of things she wants to be when she grows up.
I am thrilled to hear her say that. And I think she is, or has the potential to be, a really talented photgrapher. But did she make that decision based on something that I love to do? Or does she really love it herself?
I guess the only way our children really figure out what they want to be when they grow up is through trial and error. Which is evident by all of the people who change their majors multiple times in college (myself included). I just want her to follow her dreams ... and not mine!
What do you think?